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Never Ask Your Customers This Question

Ever tried to console a sobbing 2-year-old? I’ve been through this stage three times now with my boys. With my youngest, a typical conversation might go something like this: Him: WHAAAA!!!! Me: What’s wrong? Him: YEAH. Me: Are you hungry? Him: YEAH. Me: Did you get hurt? Him: YEAH. Me: Did you lose your toy? […]

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Should You Ever Give Discounts To People Who Ask For Them?

Here’s a slippery slope: Josh – do you ever give “one-off” discounts to customers if they as for them? Or just tell them that the full price is the price, but to look out for discounts that pop up from time to time? My philosophy on one-off discounts is: Hand up, not a hand out. […]

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How Do You “Build A Relationship” With Your Email Subscribers?

So you know you’re supposed to build a relationship with your email list, right? But what does that even *mean*? How do you “build a relationship” with a faceless group of database entities in some email software off in the cloud somewhere? Answer: You don’t. You can’t. You can only build relationships with *individuals*. Subscriber […]

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How to Defang Critics with the Power of Your Audience

A few weeks ago my business partner John was complaining about this Amazon review on his first book, Soft Skills: A Software Developer’s Life Manual. A little backstory is in order: This book has sold tens of thousands of copies, making it one of the best-selling titles for software developers ever published, and overall it […]

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Should You Ignore Complaints From Your Email Subscribers?

Last week I did a little 3-day affiliate push for my new digital product sales weapon of choice, Coach. After email #2 went out, I got my hand slapped by a subscriber I’ll call “Jeremy”: Consecutive emails shilling for Coach is a bit heavy handed, IMO. Otherwise, I’ve loved your daily notes. My reply: Thanks […]

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Email Courses: A Trendy Fad Soon To Pass?

Not too long ago I signed up for one of those “grow your email list” tools. It looked pretty good, so I invested a couple of hours to get it set up, then let it run for a week— And netted a grand total of 11 new email signups. Blech. I’m getting more and more […]

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How To Warm Up A Crufty, Crusty Old Customer Email Database

Here’s a common story sent in by a reader named Trae: First of all thank you so much for your time and resources. Super helpful! Here is my question…. I have a customer list of about 13,000 email addresses. The problem is all of these emails came from the transaction of when they bought my […]

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Help! My Consulting Leads Are Ignoring My Followup Emails

Consulting client Geneve is using an email course to generate leads for her high-end photography business marketing program. So far several subscribers have raised their hand for more info. Score! Geneve replies to them promptly, and then the train jumps the tracks: … they are not returning any of my follow up emails. I think […]

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You sly dog—you got me monologuing!

Subscriber Ant is a consultant who helps companies use elearning in their businesses. He writes: I recently purchased your product on writing an email course and am getting a lot of value out of it – so thank you for that. One question I have – I have read elsewhere that you should try and […]

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How to Write ‘Nurture Emails’ That Help Make Sales

I was hangin’ in this private online group the other day when an entrepreneur named Joe piped up and asked: I need to work on a nurture sequence for new folks on my list. Does anyone have templates of examples (or book recommendation on this topic) of what a nurture sequence should look like? Should […]

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Why ‘Average’ Email Open Rates Are Meaningless

Last week I tried an interesting experiment with the Simple Programmer email list. Over the course of 2 days, I sent out 3 “broadcast” emails with just one major difference between them. And just check out the difference in open rates: Email #1 got an abysmal 1.8% open rate (yes 1.8%, that’s NOT a typo). […]

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How To Seal A Lasting Bond With Your Email Subscribers

Lately my wife and I are binge-watching our way through “Parks and Recreation” for the fifth (possibly sixth?) time. (“Parks and Rec” is my all-time favorite sit-com—sorry, Seinfield lovers, George Castanza can’t hold a candle to Ron Swanson.) The other night we watched an episode from season 7. And in one of the sub-plots city […]

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Will Sending More Emails Get Me Blacklisted For Spam?

One fear that newcomers to email marketing have is: SPAM COMPLAINTS. Spam complaints are nothing to take lightly. Rack up enough of them and you could find yourself locked out of your email software. Or you could wind up on the “naughty list” like subscriber Justin, who writes: Have you had to deal with de-listing […]

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Dropping the Banhammer on Serial Refunder Ripoff Artists

Word of warning: I’m cranky this morning. Why’s that? Well, I just had to handle a refund request from a customer who goes by the name of Nick W. Normally I do NOT mind refund requests. The whole point of this for me is providing a service, and if a customer feels they didn’t get […]

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Where Does Your Marketing Fall on the ‘Happiness Dial’?

Back when I was bootstrapping my way into a new career as a programmer, I remember hearing about this hot new tool for building websites called Ruby on Rails. The idea behind RoR was to streamline the process of creating a new website from scratch—and allow developers to build complicated features quickly and painlessly. The […]

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